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| Slow down...you're going too fast. |
[04 Mar 2011|02:48pm] |
I am convinced that sooner or later in life the lessons we are meant to learn finally sink in through our thick skulls. This past year has been a year of repeat lessons for me, (guess I'm a little learning challenged at times). Life is suppose to be about enjoying the moment, but for me it's always been about hard work.
I grew up raised by two wonderful women, my mother and grandmother, and I honestly believe they did the best they knew how to with me. I felt loved, but never really accepted. This lack of acceptance lead me to try and prove myself. It wasn't just with my family I felt I had to prove myself but everyone so I don't think it's fair for me to try and blame them. No, I have issues that are fully of my own design and this need to prove myself is just one of them.
This is a whole lot more of my personal life than I wanted to get into so let me get back to the point of all this rambling. I have a need to prove myself (that is deeply embedded in my subconscious at this point) and this need leads me to work harder than I probably need too on most occasions. I work harder and longer than I my poor body and family can handle at times. It's only in the moments when I slow down do I realize this of course. I spent a few days at home relaxing with Tommy, (cause he broke himself...but that's his story to tell,) and it reminded me once more just how unbelievable lucky I am to have him in my life. Tommy has to be the most patient and forgiving man I know...and trust me I have put him to the test more times than I should.
However being alone with him and just being able to enjoy some time with him I once more realized I have to slow down. I have come to the conclusion that I, Simon Tobias Duchovny, am someone who doesn't need to prove himself. I don't have to be a somebody in this world. I don't have to really prove anything to anyone. No, I just have to be myself because I am loved and accepted by the people in my life based on this alone....which makes me really lucky.
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| It's Business Time! |
[28 Jan 2011|04:21pm] |
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As of three o'clock this afternoon I officially became the soul owner of the gay nightclub Backstreets. I've been working with the club for a few years now and I find that I really enjoy it and I'm really good at it actually. You will only find that surprising if you know me because I am certainly not a huge clubber. However, I do enjoy running a club. Guess it just proves how much a work-a-holic I am deep down inside. (With that in mind, I promise not to over-work myself Tommy.)Speaking of Tommy...I Think I might drag him out and go celebrate!
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[17 Jan 2011|02:21am] |
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Do you ever just have an epiphany about life? This total moment of clairvoyance where everything seems right and perfect and you just know that you know that you know it is going to be perfect. It took a phone call from my crazy ass Gran to make me see this. Life is pretty great.
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[05 Jan 2011|02:06pm] |
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Is it wrong for me to want to "retire" early so Tommy and I can buy a big boat and just sail around the world together? Yeah I am starting to think that would be the best life ever!
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| Bonjour |
[01 Jan 2011|04:27am] |
avoir une année heureuse, joyeuse, prospère et bénie nouvelle.
(Yeah hope that's right...anyway, happy new year.)
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| Hi I am Simon and I have an addictive personality..... |
[10 Dec 2010|02:31am] |
God does anyone else know how fucking frustrating it is feels to feel yourself going the same road you have been down a hundred time before...a road that you know will lead you to a place you sure as hell don't wanna go? Ugh. I don't know what my problem is!
When I was younger it was my acting was my drug, then gambling, and now it's working. Why? Like I have other things in my life to focus on so I should be able to balance my time correctly, but no. I have a confession to make. I HAVE BEEN CHEATING ON TOMMY WITH MY CELLPHONE!!!
Like seriously, Tommy has been pretty awesome with me about everything...I mean everything. I feel I have given the poor man reasons upon reasons to just say he has had enough and leave. However, if all my past reasons were not enough...I cheated on him with my phone...he only asks for one day of the week where I turn off the phone...AND I COULDN'T DO IT!?!
OH DEAR GOD.....I HAVE ISSUES!
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| Evil Hospitals |
[01 Nov 2010|07:44pm] |
Everyone hates hospitals I know but today has become my day to hate them. I have been plagued with constant headaches for the past two weeks and after popping a zillion pills or so I finally gave in and went to the doctor's at the urging of Tommy.
The stupid doctor sent me to the stupid hospital because my constant headaches come from my high blood pressure...which is really really high apparently, so much so they have placed me here in a hospital and are pumping me full of meds and running a trillion tests. I know they are trying to help me, but damn it...I am all bruised up from their needle pricks and such. They are keeping me over night and all tomorrow and tomorrow night for some sleep test. They have made me cranky and testy and you know what...who in this world isn't a little high strung?
I hear the nurse coming gotta run before she catches me on here and takes away my phone.
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| Don't you know... |
[22 Sep 2010|11:01am] |
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Got back from my doctors today and I have high blood pressure. What kinda crap is that? And then he had the nerve to tell me I need to learn to relax more. REALLY!?! Pretty sure I shouldn't want to smack my doctor for being an ass-hat, but I really wanted too. Now I have meds to take and he suggested that I try visualization relaxation...lame. I use to use that visualization crap for acting and there is nothing relaxing about it in my opinion. For the record, I am pretty relaxed. Stupid doctors.
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| Stupid Choices!!!! |
[21 Aug 2010|12:49am] |
Tommy and I have decided to take a little mini holiday only catch....I HAVE TO PICK THE DESTINATION!!!!
Why do I have have to pick? I make horrible choices always that's why I don't make them!!! I know that sounds stupid but like seriously I have issues with it...borderline panic attack kinda issues. So thanks a lot Tommy!
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[23 Jul 2010|02:26am] |
 Born in Florida.
Began his acting career at the age of 15 in the movie Forever Young in which he lied about his age to get the part. Simon's young appearance has helped him land several roles required for younger actors.
However the following year he played the part of Aaron Stampler in the film Primal Fear in which he played a disturbed young man and gained himself great acclaim from his peers in the industry.
In 2001 went into rehab for a gambling addiction.
After getting through with his rehab he decided not to head back into the movie industry right away and was able to land a job as a personal assistant to singer turned producer Joel Chapman
While residing in New York Simon met and fell in love with actor/singer Tommy Callahan.
The two men were engaged last year following the end of the Espresso tour.
Simon currently resides in New York with his fiance and their two cats Sam and Annie
Is a Co-owner for the club Backstreets with friend Dan Fox.
Currently working on a internet cartoon all about a man and his cat.
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